tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30791793917456477742024-02-08T13:25:25.698-05:00The Daily GrindA daily blog about life, things that I want to vent about and more! Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-89148881698558106552015-12-30T21:37:00.001-05:002015-12-30T21:47:42.696-05:00Christians Shouldn't Drink Alcohol?Recently, I saw this article pop up on my newsfeed 3 or 4 times. I was slightly annoyed by the title and even more so when I read the article. You can read the article here:<a href="http://www.charismanews.com/us/54097-50-reasons-why-i-don-t-drink">http://www.charismanews.com/us/54097-50-reasons-why-i-don-t-drink </a><br />
but I'm going to break down my annoyance with this article point by point. Before I do that though, let me just say, I understand why this ex-alcoholic pastor does not any longer drink--good call on that! I also am not trying to encourage my Christian brothers and sisters to drink. It's completely your choice. I'm just saying, this pastor's logic has serious flaws and some of her statements, although bold and sound "very Christian", they are simply not true. Let's break this down (my comments will be in red, after his statements, which will be in black).<br />
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1. I can't be sober-minded if I'm not sober.<span style="color: red;"> Right. Your previous statements though said, "reasons I don't drink" not "reasons I don't get drunk". Two very different things.</span> <br />
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2. Alcohol has an assignment: destruction. <span style="color: red;">It does?</span> <span style="color: red;">That is just a statement made out of her head or her experience. I have never known this to be true.</span><br />
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3. Alcohol is a depressant. Anything that depresses should be avoided at all costs.<span style="color: red;"> It should? Why? Alcohol is a depressant, which is why people generally drink it to help relax. Why should anything that depresses be avoided? There is quite a difference from having a drink to help you relax and being depressed.</span> <br />
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4. I don't want to make my brother or sister stumble in the name of exercising my "Christian liberties." My choice to drink could lead to someone's demise. <span style="color: red;">Again, if you were talking about getting drunk, yes. Drinking alcohol is not a sin though. If you are going along this line of thinking, I would hope the author does not eat meat because that could cause vegetarians to stumble etc...</span><br />
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5. Alcohol skews my judgment. <span style="color: red;">Drinking too much alcohol skews one's judgement.</span><br />
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6. Alcohol leaves me worse, not better.<span style="color: red;"> If you are an alcoholic, yes. If you get drunk, yes. If you are drinking red wine, no. Red wine, for instance is really good for you and it helps protect your heart as well.</span><br />
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7. What I do in moderation, my children will do in excess. <span style="color: red;">Care to share any Bible reference or a reliable source of research to support this? I have not found any truth to this blanket statement.</span><br />
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8. Even the unsaved know I shouldn't drink. Bible in one hand, beer in the other — any lost person could point this out as a confusing contradiction. <span style="color: red;">Again, there seems to be confusion with getting drunk and drinking alcohol. Why would there be any issue with your Bible in one hand and a beer in the other? I have had a nice glass of wine while doing my Bible study. No contradiction that I can see.</span><br />
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9. Alcohol doesn't bring others closer to the Lord when they see me drinking, but farther away. <span style="color: red;">Back to #8. Unless I am getting drunk, how would this have an affect on others? I would take it a step further and say if someone is judging me for drinking alcohol (not a sin), is actually in sin themselves.</span> <br />
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10. Alcohol doesn't bring me closer to the Lord when I drink, but farther away. <span style="color: red;">How? Although having a glass of wine may not bring me closer to the Lord, neither does drinking a Coke.</span> <br />
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11. I want to be fully awake and ready for the return of Christ, not drowsy, sluggish and fuzzy. <span style="color: red;">So, you never sleep, relax or take a break? And, if you don't want to be fuzzy, just shave every day :)</span><br />
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12. Show me a family where alcohol has made a positive difference in their lives. You won't be able to. <span style="color: red;">Ummm...yes I can. Have you met my family?! Kidding. Really though, we didn't drink at all for years because we didn't want to afford it. In the last few years, we have been able to and I would say it has positively affected some of our relationships. Just as eating good food with friends and family, it's very nice to enjoy a glass of wine with loved ones.</span><br />
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13. I have never heard anyone say, "Wow, that gin and tonic made me feel so Christ-like!"<span style="color: red;"> I've never heard anyone say, "wow, that Coke made me feel so Christ-like!" So, unless you eat strictly for survival and take no pleasure in eating or drinking (non-alcohol), that statement is not a reason not to drink alcohol.</span><br />
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14. I want to avoid all appearances of evil. <span style="color: red;">Me too. Alcohol is not evil and I don't know why it would appear evil.</span><br />
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15. Alcohol makes it much harder for me to practice the fruit of self-control. <span style="color: red;">Chocolate does that for me. :)</span><br />
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16. Alcohol causes me to lose my filter. <span style="color: red;">I don't have much of a filter to begin with. :) Again, I think the author is referring to being drunk, in which case I would agree.</span><br />
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17. Alcohol is a mind-altering, legal drug.<span style="color: red;"> I don't think it's classified as a drug. If we are going to say that though, so is caffeine and many other herbs and supplements</span>. <br />
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18. Alcohol is addictive. <span style="color: red;">True. As is caffeine, chocolate, etc...</span><br />
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19. Alcohol is a numbing agent for pain and sorrow that only Jesus can heal. <span style="color: red;">If you drink to numb pain and sorrow, you have a problem. Just as using food to comfort you instead of Jesus. The root problem is not alcohol, it's a heart issue.</span><br />
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20. Many regrets are associated with alcohol. (I can give you a whole bunch!) <span style="color: red;">Once again, I think the author is confusing being drunk with drinking alcohol. I understand she is coming from a place of being an alcoholic in the past so that is understandable but inaccurate.</span> <br />
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21. No one has ever said, "If only I had taken a drink, things wouldn't have gotten out of control." <span style="color: red;">I get what the author is saying here. I'll just leave this one. :)</span><br />
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22. Alcohol causes me to act in ways I normally wouldn't. <span style="color: red;">Once again, that statement should read, "drinking too much alcohol causes me to act in a way I normally wouldn't"</span><br />
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23. Alcohol kills brain cells. <span style="color: red;">Actually, it doesn't. Read here:</span> <a href="http://www.brainhq.com/brain-resources/brain-facts-myths/brain-mythology/brain-myth-alcohol-kills-brain-cells">http://www.brainhq.com/brain-resources/brain-facts-myths/brain-mythology/brain-myth-alcohol-kills-brain-cells</a><br />
<span style="color: red;">Moderate drinking does not kill brain cells. In fact, there are many health benefits to drinking red wine, for instance.</span><br />
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24. Alcohol is a counterfeit, and provides a false peace. <span style="color: red;">I haven't found this to be true at all. You could say your soft blanket provides false warmth and can lead to laziness, which is a sin.</span> <br />
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25. The Bible says that no drunkards will enter the kingdom of God. Being drunk starts with one drink. I don't want to see how far outside the lines I can color when eternity is at stake. <span style="color: red;">Being drunk does not start with one drink any more than being a glutton begins with one cheeseburger. Again, I understand the author is coming from a perspective of someone who became addicted and abused alcohol in the past. So, in her experience this may be true but it is not true in every experience. </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">26. Alcohol is a waster – money, gifts and talents, destinies, etc</span><span style="color: red;">. this statement is not actually true. I understand the author is speaking from his experience but in my experience, drinking alcohol has not wasted any of these things.</span><br />
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27. Alcohol leads to really bad behavior. It is a factor in 50% of violent crimes. <span style="color: red;">I would like to see a creditable source that demonstrates 50% of violent crimes involve alcohol. Furthermore, I would like the information that demonstrates this "really bad behavior" is a result of someone drinking responsibly and not getting drunk.</span><br />
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28. Alcohol distracts and derails you from living the victorious life for which Christ died. <span style="color: red;">In what way? Again, the author is speaking from her personal experience but this is not a factual statement.</span><br />
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29. Wisdom is the principle thing that I need to pursue at all cost; alcohol makes me stupid. <span style="color: red;">Alcohol makes me stupid?? I have not found that to be true in any way.</span><br />
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30. Alcohol has ruined many, many marriages. The author missed one important word in this one: <span style="color: red;">Alcohol </span><i><span style="color: red;">addiction</span></i><span style="color: red;"> has ruined many marriages</span>.<br />
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31. The only influence I should be "under" is God's.<span style="color: red;"> I feel like I'm just repeating myself so I'll leave this one too :)</span><br />
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32. The Bible tells me to be alert; alcohol delays my reaction time. <span style="color: red;">So does being exhausted from work, kids, etc...and, once again, having a glass of wine does not delay my reaction time.</span><br />
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33. If I don't start drinking, I'll never have to stop. <span style="color: red;">True.</span> <span style="color: red;">Same goes for eating brownies :)</span><br />
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34. Alcohol severely tarnishes my testimony. <span style="color: red;">How? This is a "Christian phrase" I hear a lot. I think we need to really take a look at what helps my Christian testimony and what hurts it. Being drunk? Yes. That would hurt it. Drinking alcohol? No. I don't think it does.</span><br />
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35. Don't want your teenagers to drink? Yep, same reasons apply to you. <span style="color: red;">I don't want my teenager to drink because it's against the law. The same law that allows me, as an adult, to partake if I wish.</span><br />
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36. God is holy; alcohol is not.<span style="color: red;"> Agree with the first part, disagree with the later. The Bible speaks several times about alcohol and does not condemn drinking. In fact, Jesus turned water into wine at a wedding celebration and Jesus tells us to drink wine with joy and that wine makes the heart happy (Ecc.9:7, Psalm 104:7).</span><br />
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37. Alcohol and prayer don't mix. <span style="color: red;">why not? I've prayed many times while taking a bath and drinking wine.</span><br />
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38. Alcohol and Bible study don't mix. <span style="color: red;">Why not? I've do</span><br />
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39. Alcohol lowers my resolve to resist temptation. <span style="color: red;">Again, I think the author meant being drunk, not drinking.</span><br />
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40. Alcohol = Brokenness (broken lives, health, dreams, etc.) <span style="color: red;">Simply not true. Alcoholism- yes. Alcohol- no. </span><br />
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41. When the world sees us drinking, it sends the message that Jesus isn't enough. <span style="color: red;">This is simply not true. When the world sees us drinking, they see us enjoying some of God's gifts to us here on earth. That is like saying, "when the world sees us drinking coffee, it sends a message Jesus isn't enough."</span><br />
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42. Moderate drinking? How about moderate pornography or moderate heroin use or moderate lying or moderate adultery? <span style="color: red;">Well, except every other thing mentioned here are clearly sins. Drinking is not a sin. Not in the same category.</span> <br />
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43. Christians are called to live a life of total surrender and separation from the world. <span style="color: red;">Doesn't God call us to live IN this world but not OF this world?</span> <br />
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44. Alcohol makes me forget. It can make me forget that I am married, that I am saved, etc. <span style="color: red;">Again, I've never forgot being married or saved from having a glass of wine.</span> <br />
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45. "I don't get drunk. I only have one or two drinks." If they didn't affect you, you would drink soda.<br />
<span style="color: red;">Right. If it didn't affect you, you would drink water for survival only. Soda has caffeine in it, which is mind-altering. You also wouldn't drink tea because that also has mind-altering properties in it.</span> <br />
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46. I should never look to the glass or bottle for joy, which can only be found in the Lord Jesus Christ. <span style="color: red;">This was already talked about. If anyone is looking to fill a void with alcohol, food or whatever, that is the problem--a heart issue.</span><br />
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47. Alcohol fills my mind with impure thoughts. <span style="color: red;">That would be as a result of drinking too much I would assume. Again, this is your experience, not really having that much to do with alcohol, rather the abuse of alcohol.</span><br />
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48. If it could hinder my faith walk, love walk or dishonor the lordship of Jesus Christ, I need to forsake it.<span style="color: red;"> I agree with her. We all must check our own hearts on this.</span><br />
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49. Alcohol doesn't help me run the race that Jesus has marked before me to finish with more accuracy. It does the polar opposite. <span style="color: red;">This might be true in your experience of abusing alcohol but for others without the past history of abuse of alcohol, this is not the case.</span><br />
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50. For any argument that tries to justify Christian drinking, there are at least 50 other reasons not to. The writing is on the wall. It's not God's best for Christians to drink. <span style="color: red;">This is the statement that might bother me the most. Of the 50 reasons you came up with as to why Christians should not drink, I found ONE I can agree with. To finish off with "It's not God's best for Christians to drink" is a pretty broad statement. I understand the author comes from a history of abusing alcohol but to jump to the belief that Christians should not drink is a big leap with no real ground to land on. </span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"> </span><span style="color: black;">I know lots of people who choose not to drink, including my parents. I respect their decision. What I take issue with is someone saying Christians should not drink. Hopefully, my responses give a more balanced position and some insight to what God actually says on the topic.</span> <br />
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*Cheers* </div>
Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-12855401077304724282015-07-14T21:57:00.001-04:002015-07-14T21:57:59.215-04:002 Years LaterSo, it's been about 2 years since I've last posted....<br />
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I feel some new blog material percolating...<br />
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Not sure that my Facebook friends want to continue reading all my long, drawn out posts, so I thought going back to my blog might be a good idea.<br />
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We have been learning, growing, enjoying, sometimes trudging through the muddy trenches of life. I want to record all the things we've been learning and all the things that have really made a difference in our lives. My hope is that someone might find some inspiration, hope or maybe just a laugh or a little joy from our every day experiences. <br />
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In the future, I promise some pictures, maybe a few little videos...who knows. So, in true "Amy fashion", I will keep this blog real and honest, even if it means opening myself up to judgment because when you live your life in a real and authentic way, the reward is real and authentic relationships. Also, I can't tell you how many times I've put the raw reality of my life, my past or present situation out there and it helped someone in their own situation. It's always nice when someone says, "me too."Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-19475171659973564092011-03-13T16:17:00.000-04:002011-03-13T16:17:04.139-04:00Really Cool BlogsI am taking a break from the budget posts--how are you doing on the budget by the way?--to highlight a few really cool blogs!<br />
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First, Recycle That: http://recyclethatstuff.blogspot.com/ has ideas for reusing paper towel and toilet paper rolls--smart ideas!<br />
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Next, Maple Valley Farm: http://eclecticculturefarm.blogspot.com/ this is my sister in law and brother in law and their family. They live on an Amish farm 'off the grid' with no electricity and they farm with horses. Their blog is always inspiring and really fun to read!<br />
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And finally, here's one for online writers: http://freewritingtools.blogspot.com/ this one has a lot of good information if you are currently writing online. If you are just thinking about writing online or have just started, this might be a little confusing :)Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-85299416121731708142011-03-03T18:50:00.000-05:002011-03-03T18:50:38.444-05:00More Budget FunWow, it has been a long time since I made a post! I am getting back to it now, promise. :) Ok, I am going to talk just a little bit more about....budgets. Yes, I know it's not the most exciting thing to talk about but once you have a "name on every dollar" (as Dave Ramsey would say), you will find you love to keep a budget more and more!<br />
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A budget is not only for people on a "limited income", not at all. A budget should be for everyone, and chances are, most wealthy people have a budget, stick to a budget and have become pros at keeping a budget--this is a step to obtaining wealth. <br />
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Where to start: Record everything you spend for one month. Every single dime. This will give you a guide in setting your budget. Before the next month starts, sit down and work out a budget. Here is a helpful tool. <br />
<a href="http://www.budgetworksheets.org/">http://www.budgetworksheets.org/</a><br />
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If you are married, sit down with your spouse and come up with numbers you can both be happy with. This will take a little effort and 'give and take'. If you can not agree on a number for a particular area, use one person's number one month and the other person's number the next and compare after 2 months. Which ever number worked better, use that one in the budget. <br />
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If you are married, agree to re-visit the budget every so often. Some people like to do it twice a year some like re-visit it more often. <br />
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Try it out and see how it changes your marriage and your money!Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-8395673384666691532011-02-09T09:22:00.000-05:002011-02-09T09:22:50.061-05:00Saving MoneyI admit, we have not always been the best with our money. There was a time when it took way too much time to use coupons, we bought on impulse and we had debt. It was like a ball and chain literally weighing us down. Each month we had more going out than coming in and we felt like we were always one step ahead and then two steps back. That is no way to live. Then, we found a solution (*hint: it was not "make more money"). We made a plan and a budget.<br />
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I hated the idea of a budget, I mean really hated it. I resisted bad at first. Once I realized a budget was not a restraint but a key to financial freedom, I changed my attitude toward it. My husband and I sat down and honestly assessed our situation. We wrote down all our expenses and all our income and compared the two. That was hard to do. We did not play the blame game. We came up with solutions instead. We trimmed a few 'extras' we did not want to trim but we wanted to be out of debt worse than having the 'extras'. We made a monthly budget we could both live with. That was the first step. <br />
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I will be blogging a lot more about this subject, not because we are perfect at it but because we have learned a lot and I want to share what we have learned with others. Today, we are debt free except our mortgage, which we have never borrowed against, so just our true first mortgage. We have paid off all our debts, step by step, and I can't even express the freedom that gives us! We have a savings account that continues to grow instead of shrink each month. We are not panicked when the tax bill comes or the doctor bills. <br />
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One key program that helped us in a HUGE way is Dave Ramsey. His Financial Peace University is an amazing program. I HIGHLY recommend this to everyone. It is important to go through this with a group of people if at all possible. It is hard at first. But, it is so great to know you are not alone, too poor or too far in debt to be helped. And, in the end, it WILL work and you WILL be free from debt that weighs you down!<br />
P.S. I don't get any 'kickback' for promoting this...I just know it works!<br />
<a href="http://www.daveramsey.com/home/">http://www.daveramsey.com/home/</a><br />
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*Stay tuned for much more on this subject....Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-52268808786502266462011-01-27T18:42:00.000-05:002011-01-27T18:42:35.906-05:00Meal Planning Before you groan too much, remember I resist all things "inside the box" including (but definitely not limited to) meal planning, budgets, planning, time management and so much more. But I assure you, meal planning will save so much money, time and energy in the long run, it is so worth it!<br />
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I am a true free spirit who likes to just go with the flow. However, that actually does not work in real life and when we are managing a household along with the rest of life, we must learn to budget, plan, manage time and more. I have learned that putting these things in my life, actually allows me to live with freedom (if that doesn't make sense, stay tuned and I will break it all down sometime).<br />
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Which brings me to: meal planning. I admit, coming up with dinner each night can be a chore. I have one child allergic to red dye and truly does not like anything with any red sauce type thing so no pizza, taco, spaghetti, and so on. Now, I refuse to be a short order cook so if someone doesn't like what is for dinner, they are welcome to a bowl of cereal or a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. With that said, I do like to try for meals everyone will like and still stay in the budget.<br />
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I'll be totally honest here: our weekly budget for groceries (includes all cleaning and household products, beauty products and food) is $150.00 per week. It used to be impossible for me to stay with in that budget for a family of five. Then, I started learning about how to really use coupons and it made a world of difference. I now have anywhere from $50.00-150.00 per month left in the grocery budget each month. I will be posting much more on this subject in the days to come so stay tuned. <br />
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Back to meal planning. Planning out my weekly has become pretty simple. I base most of it on what is on sale that week. I have done monthly meal planning but that is just too overwhelming for me, so I stick to weekly. We usually have 1-2 meatless meals per week and 1 breakfast for dinner meal. We have sports 2-3 nights per week and church on Wednesday nights so those are either plan ahead meals, crockpot meals, or just super simple meal nights. <br />
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Here are some good ideas for cheap, easy meals:<br />
<a href="http://save.lovetoknow.com/Free_Frugal_Menu_Plan">http://save.lovetoknow.com/Free_Frugal_Menu_Plan</a><br />
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This one has some good ideas too:<br />
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<a href="http://organizedhome.com/kitchen-tips/menu-planning-save-time-kitchen">http://organizedhome.com/kitchen-tips/menu-planning-save-time-kitchen</a>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-10900121085294726922011-01-22T18:43:00.000-05:002011-01-22T18:43:23.812-05:00Homemade Bread (easy, I promise!)I am sure some of you are rolling your eyes right now thinking, "yeah, ok I'll go make my own bread quick a minute..." I did the same thing, really! I am no Martha Stewart by any means so if I was going to make bread, it had to be quick and easy. I found this recipe and it is just that- quick and easy! And, it tastes WONDERFUL!<br />
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This recipe makes 2 nice sized loaves and honestly takes just a few minutes of actual "labor" and only an hour from start to finish. It must be practically fool- proof too because mine turned out perfect the very first time! I think this is going to quickly become a staple in our house! <br />
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I probably should have saved this for one of my "secrets" but I want everyone to enjoy this simple and VERY tasty recipe.<br />
One Hour Bread (and there is even an instructional video!)<br />
<a href="http://www.lafujimama.com/2009/09/simple-one-hour-homemade-bread/">http://www.lafujimama.com/2009/09/simple-one-hour-homemade-bread/</a>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-5976983003490887232011-01-18T13:57:00.000-05:002011-01-18T13:57:13.440-05:00Tip TuesdayHappy Tuesday! <br />
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Since I haven't posted in several days, I am going to 'make up' for it with several good tips and links :).<br />
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First, I want to tell you about one of the BEST, CHEAPEST and most natural cleaning products to clean with: Baking Soda!<br />
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I know some of you use baking soda already but if you don't, you should! There is no reason to spend any money on Comet or whatever you use to clean your sinks--baking soda works wonders! <br />
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Also, did you know Baking Soda can put out grease fires? It can. And best of all, it won't damage the way chemicals from a fire extinguisher will.<br />
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Also, baking soda can sooth burns, polish silverware, clean burned on food from pans and much more! Really, it is pretty amazing stuff! The only down side is you do have to rise well and dry in order for it not to leave a white film.<br />
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Here is a link with tons of great tips:<br />
<a href="http://www.thefarm.org/charities/i4at/lib2/60soda.htm">http://www.thefarm.org/charities/i4at/lib2/60soda.htm</a><br />
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Another great cleaner that is cheap: Vinegar! I keep several spray bottles 1/2 vinegar and 1/2 water on hand to clean pretty much everything. <br />
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*Note: you will smell a vinegar smell for a few minutes after cleaning. This smell goes away completely once it is dry. If it bothers you, add a couple drops of essential oil to your cleaning solutions.<br />
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Here is a great link for ideas:<br />
<a href="http://www.doityourself.com/stry/vinegarbakingsoda">http://www.doityourself.com/stry/vinegarbakingsoda</a><br />
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The link above also has ideas for vinegar and baking soda together; which is super powerful to clean pretty much anything!Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-14154087319000632082011-01-13T13:33:00.000-05:002011-01-13T13:33:18.178-05:00Stop Coughing at NightThere is nothing worse than laying in bed, coughing all night...ok, I can think of a few worse things but it is annoying none the less. :) <br />
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When someone told me about this little trick, I was skeptical so, of course, I had to try it. That very next week after my friend had given me the tip, I started a cold and I was coughing all night that first night. The second night, I tried this trick and guess what, it worked!<br />
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Here is the article on how to stop that bothersome coughing at night. It works with children too!<br />
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<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_5715575_stop-using-vapor-rub-feet.html">http://www.ehow.com/how_5715575_stop-using-vapor-rub-feet.html</a><br />
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A couple extra tips: put a nice thick layer right in the bottom, center of each foot and cover your feet with thick, warm socks.Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-5554591509861747322011-01-12T13:39:00.000-05:002011-01-12T13:39:24.798-05:00Clean Your Keyboard Quick, Easy and FREE!Happy Wednesday! We are half-way through the week already!<br />
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First, I want to again say a huge thank you to all the people who follow this blog! Also, thank you for all the nice comments and interaction you all have given to the blog! Please feel free to let me know what you might want to see on the blog and if I don't know it or have a link to it, I can probably find someone who does! :)<br />
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Today's tip is a household/computer tip. Again, this may be an obvious tip that some of you have always done. For me, I had never even thought of it until someone mentioned this is the way they clean their computer keyboard. We always purchased that 'canned air' (I know, first they sell us water and now they sell us air-yikes!). Well, this trick works just as well and it is free! <br />
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<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_6165942_clean-keyboard-quick-easy.html">http://www.ehow.com/how_6165942_clean-keyboard-quick-easy.html</a>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-7082311954418213812011-01-11T13:08:00.000-05:002011-01-11T13:08:55.443-05:00Tueday's Tech TipHappy Tuesday!<br />
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This Tuesday is going to be a computer tip or a "tech tip". Some of you might think this one is really lame. If you do, it's ok just skip it and wait for something more exciting tomorrow :). I was reading the other day about using Firefox vs. Internet Explorer (IE) for Internet browsing. In the past, I had always used IE without giving it much thought. I do still use IE sometimes, mostly just out of habit. I am not saying IE is "bad" but it is now a known fact that IE has many more virus attacks, for instance. <br />
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For me, I prefer Firefox. You can easily download the Firefox browser here:<br />
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<a href="http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/firefox/">http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/firefox/</a><br />
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Again, there are many different browsers and everyone has their favorite but I think Firefox is a little 'smarter' and a little safer than the IE browser.Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-67987436950016465282011-01-10T09:20:00.000-05:002011-01-10T09:20:02.075-05:00Tip of the DayHappy Monday! I couldn't think of any witty saying for Monday so, it's just "tip of the day". <br />
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Today's tip is super simple but it works every time. Just this morning, I went to get some brown sugar for my oatmeal and the brown sugar was hard as a rock--ick. Then, I remembered an article I wrote a few years ago about how to soften brown sugar. This trick works every time even on the most rock-hard brown sugar! So, here's your little tip of the day:<br />
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<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_4752740_brown-sugar-soft-again.html">http://www.ehow.com/how_4752740_brown-sugar-soft-again.html</a><br />
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*note: many of the articles I have been sharing I wrote in my 'early days' of eHow writing-they are not great quality as I knew nothing about writing what so ever but they are accurate and, we can't change them now so please excuse the quality of writing and just extract the tips from them :).Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-41382391116128647212011-01-07T10:14:00.001-05:002011-01-08T10:27:42.034-05:00White TeethHappy Friday! Today, I am going to share a 'secret' I have been using for a couple years. I know, we don't have 50 followers yet but I am going to share this one anyway :). <br />
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Ok I admit, I love coffee (hence the name of this blog) and tea too! I also have big teeth and smile a lot so I think my teeth are the first thing a lot of people notice. Anyone who knows me, knows I am pretty obsessed with my teeth. I hate the feeling of 'dirty' teeth and I can't stand it when my teeth don't look white. <br />
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In the past, I have used the Crest whitestrips and they work and all but they are expensive and do you know what they are? Peroxide. So, a couple years ago I asked my dentist about this little trick I had heard about and he agreed it was perfectly safe and very effective. It also gets rid of bad breath which is the other thing I am chronic about--bonus! The best part? It costs next to nothing- less than $1.00! So, here's the secret:<br />
<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_5926733_do-own-teeth-whitening-home.html">http://www.ehow.com/how_5926733_do-own-teeth-whitening-home.html</a>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-52717681873152200262011-01-06T09:07:00.000-05:002011-01-06T09:07:18.562-05:00Homemade Fabric SoftnerHomemade liquid fabric softener is SUPER easy to make and you can customize it to smell however you want it to! It has the most unexpected ingredient in it: hair conditioner! I have been using this for about 2 years now and I will never go back to the expensive liquid fabric softener that is full of chemicals that are harsh on your clothes and washing machine. <br />
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You can make this organic if you want to use organic-based hair conditioner. Personally, I use the cheapest conditioner I can find (usually less than $1.00 with a coupon). This liquid fabric softener usually comes out to about .50 cents per batch, which does around 30 loads of laundry! That is quite a savings! Here's the recipe:<br />
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<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_2268787_homemade-liquid-fabric-softener.html">http://www.ehow.com/how_2268787_homemade-liquid-fabric-softener.html</a><br />
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<span style="color: #e06666;">Tip: if you find you still have static cling, add more vinegar to your recipe.</span>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-30402687401560667312011-01-05T11:32:00.000-05:002011-01-05T11:32:12.178-05:00Secret #1 "Ding,ding, ding!" We hit 25 followers-thank you!!<br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000;"><span style="font-size: large;"> Secret #1 (with a bonus tip at the end)</span></span><br />
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<a href="http://www.marketforce.com/the-shopper-force/">http://www.marketforce.com/the-shopper-force/</a><br />
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This is a place I have worked for and because I am not currently working for them, I can give you the scoop. When I was working for them, I kept it on the major "down low" as there are a limited number of local shops. This is a site for "Secret shopping" and/ or merchandisers. The pay may seem low at first but if you time your shops right, you can make decent money and you get free food and you get to go to the movies free too! The only reason I stopped doing this was because I have a lot of other projects going on with writing. When I was working for them, I always got paid and had no problems with them at all. This is totally legit and a lot of fun! <br />
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Bonus tip: Apply to the "blue portal" if you want to do retail stores and fast food chains and apply to the "purple portal" if you want to do movie theaters and/or stock promotional material for various stores. You can apply to both as well. <br />
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Once we hit 50 followers, I will give out another secret...Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-19577631900211735392011-01-05T09:38:00.000-05:002011-01-05T09:38:26.537-05:00Wednesday Whoh!Each Wednesday, I will be posting a "Wednesday whoh!" This may be a "whoh!" like "hold the show, this is awesome!" or it could be a "whoh!" as in: "Whoh, don't do that!"<br />
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<span style="color: #e06666; font-size: large;">Wednesday's whoh! : Follow the rules; spoken and unspoken</span><br />
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When working online, there are spoken and unspoken rules. Some rules, if broken, will get you a swift ban not only from a site you may be making money at, but also from Google; yes, you can actually be ban from Google...well, from making money from Google. <br />
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Once you are "blacklisted" or banned, it is forever and there is no pleading your case, it's just done. So, before you venture into making money, know the rules, read the fine print, talk to other people who are making money from the same place, it is important.<br />
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Now, don't be scared. As long as you follow a few really easy rules, you will be fine. Let me highlight a couple big ones:<br />
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No-no #1: Do not copy and paste content. Never, ever is that ok. Plagiarism is a huge problem on the Internet. Don't be part of that problem. Posting a link to someone else's work is ok (and usually appreciated) but do not copy other people's material. One exception to that rule is recipes. Recipes are not subject to copyright. Personally, I would still check with the author before copying an entire recipe verbatim; that would fall in the "unspoken rule " category. This goes for pictures also. You can not snag a picture off Google images and use it without permission. There are lots of free or very reasonable sites that house photos you can use (more on that later).<br />
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No-no #2: If you are writing content online, especially revenue share articles, do not click on your own ads. Also, do not mention your ads or encourage friends and family to click on the ads. Google Adsense has a very sensitive system and can easily track the ad clicks. It is not difficult for them to find those 'cheating the system' and you will be banned in a hurry. Now, if your readers are genuinely interested, they will click on the ad, that is how it is supposed to work. My best advice is to not even worry about the ads. Just write your articles and leave the ads alone completely.<br />
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P.S. Just 4 more followers to get to 25 and then...I will give away a secret to making money online! (don't worry, none of my secrets cost any money).Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-9584301445424753692011-01-04T09:15:00.000-05:002011-01-04T09:15:03.284-05:00Tuesday TipsFirst, thank you to all the new followers, comments and encouragement, I really appreciate it! I don't claim to be a 'know it all' by any means but I am a research junkie and very curious by nature so I do know a little about a lot of things. I am willing to share everything I know with all of you. I will share all the 'insider' secrets (that I am allowed) because I want to see everyone who wants to, succeed at making money online and saving money at home! Once there are 25 followers, I will reveal a money-making 'secret'. Once there are 50, 75, 100 and so on, I will reveal another secret so stay tuned, the higher the number of followers, the more 'juicy' the secrets will be! :)<br />
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Since Tuesday is sometimes a boring day of the week, I am giving two tips, just for fun. <br />
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Tip #1:<br />
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Today's household tip: <strong><span style="color: #0b5394;">Make your own dishwasher detergent</span></strong>.<br />
This is SO simple and super cheap! We have well water that is quite hard so I add about 2 tablespoons of salt to the recipe and it works BETTER than store-bought detergent. Not only does this save money, there are no chemicals and it is less harsh on your dishwasher. I have been using this recipe for 2 years now and it works great!<br />
<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_5483005_make-powder-dishwasher-detergent.html">http://www.ehow.com/how_5483005_make-powder-dishwasher-detergent.html</a><br />
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Tip #2:<br />
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Bonus tip:<strong> </strong><span style="color: #351c75;"><strong>Building up a savings account.</strong> </span>No matter how tight your budget, you can start a savings account. Have $5.00 per week taken directly out of your check and put into a savings account. You very likely will never miss $5.00 per week from your paycheck but at the end of the year, you will have $260.00 in savings! Maybe try bumping it up to $10.00 per week the next year. You will have $520.00 in savings by the end of the year! It really does add up quickly.Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-84295344576019128432011-01-03T09:56:00.000-05:002011-01-03T09:56:37.495-05:00Tip of the Day: "Monday Moneysaver"Today's tip is a "Monday Money Saver". I have been making my own laundry soap for about 3 years now and I love it! My daughter has very sensitive skin and this recipe works well on even the most delicate skin. I have added a few drops of essential oil for a nice scent but the soap itself has a nice 'clean' smell to it too. <br />
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I broke down the savings and I was amazed! We were using liquid Tide or another brand that was "free and clear" (with no dyes). We have well water that is quite hard so to get the stains out, we need to use a good branded detergent. Even on sale, with a coupon I the lowest I could get the price was around .25 cents per load. With the homemade detergent, it comes out to .03 cents per load! Sometimes it is even less if I get the Ivory soap on sale, for instance! That is a savings of .22 cents per load of wash. We do an average of 15 loads of laundry per week, or about 60 loads per month. .22 cents x 60 loads = $13.20 per month savings AND you get a much higher quality soap that is better for your skin and your washer.<br />
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Here is the recipe:<br />
<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_2268337_make-powder-homemade-laundry-soap.html">http://www.ehow.com/how_2268337_make-powder-homemade-laundry-soap.html</a><br />
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Now, if you have a front loading washer or you want to use liquid, here is the recipe:<br />
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<a href="http://www.thefamilyhomestead.com/laundrysoap.htm">http://www.thefamilyhomestead.com/laundrysoap.htm</a><br />
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One last tip: When using the powdered laundry soap, I run a bit of hot water in my washer, add the laundry soap and let it disolve, then add my clothes (and turn it to cold water). Also, the soap does not make suds--this is normal. Trust me, your clothes will be cleaner than with the store-bought soap!Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-33268710076136047562011-01-02T16:44:00.000-05:002011-01-02T16:44:34.790-05:00Tip of the DayToday's Tip is for O<b><i>nline Passive Income</i></b><br />
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Online Passive Income takes time to develop but once it's established, you literally make money for doing nothing! Currently, all my passive income is at eHow.com. Up until last year, eHow had the WCP (writer's compensation program). Now, the WCP has shut down but I still make passive income on my articles every single month! This is just one example of many, many ways to make passive income online.<br />
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Today's Tip: Find your nitche' on the web and diversify. For instance, if you like writing, check out sites like Brighthub, Squidoo or Demand Studios to begin writing for reoccurring income.<br />
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<script src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/s/link-enhancer?tag=thedaigri0c-20&o=1" type="text/javascript"></script>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3079179391745647774.post-7558471241740184422011-01-02T16:14:00.000-05:002011-01-02T16:14:28.389-05:00Welcome to the First Post!Welcome to "The Daily Grind". I named this blog mostly because I love coffee! I wanted a place to house all my various tips, tricks, and secrets to making "The Daily Grind" of life a little easier, more efficient and more fun! Everyday I will be posting a "tip of the day" so be sure to check back often.<br />
I have been working on the Internet for more than 3 years now. I have learned a lot about making a nice income on the Internet through writing. Currently, I write for Demand Media Studios and several other clients. I also make passive income every month through eHow. I will be posting lots of information, tips and secrets to making money online. <br />
I also run a household of 5. We live in the woods and have a small 'hobby farm' with chickens, ducks, a large garden etc..and we heat our home with wood. So, I have learned a lot of tips about saving money, living on a budget and so on. I will be posting things like: How to make your own laundry soap, dishwasher soap, how to really save using coupons and much, much more!<br />
Finally, we have a family computer business. We have been in business since 1985. We are one of the few smaller business' that have survived and thrived in this shaky economy. I will be posting computer tips and tricks along with secrets to being successful in business.<br />
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So, welcome to "The Daily Grind"!Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18128439740457134416noreply@blogger.com5